Keys & Tips

• Keep it simple and approx 60 – 90 minutes in length
• Keep it consistent (weekly, bi-weekly)
• Keep it structured (use a study guide, book, etc. no long lesson plans needed)
• Keep it on track (need leader to keep folks from going off on tangents)
• Start and end in Prayer
• River Rule

Ground Rules – Make sure to reiterate that this is a safe place to share.  What is said here stays here.  The authentic Catholic view should always be presented.  Everyone is invited to share their honest viewpoint (even if it departs from Catholic teaching).  

Listen –  The facilitator should foster discussion not lead the conversation.  Speak as often as the person who speaks least – but do ask clarifying questions.

Navigate –  Keep things on track, minimize drama/gossip, and redirect.  Allow for each person to share their thoughts and make sure no one monopolizes the conversation (especially you).

Environment – The group should be seated in a way that everyone can see and hear each other with minimal distractions.  Make sure everyone is on the same level, facing each other. 

Facilitate –   Try to get everyone involved – but don’t single out any particular person by putting them on the spot.  Let them jump in when they are ready.

Encourage – affirm each person for sharing their thoughts, feelings, and input.  Affirmation can happen during (thanks for being honest) or after the gathering (I appreciate your thoughts last week on…)
  

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