Stages of Marriage

The psychologist Paul Tournier said, “I’ve been married six times – all to the same woman.” Tournier explained that he never got divorced, but rather his marriage transitioned from one stage to another.
 
All healthy marriages experience change and transition. That’s what keeps them alive and growing. Some of the stages of growth are predictable, others are not.  

Newly Married (0 – 5 years)
Middle Years (6 – 25 years), which usually coincides with active parenting
Later Years (26+ years), also known as the “empty nest” years
 
Not all marriages fit neatly into these categories. Those in second marriages may find times shortened; however, certain developmental tasks generally take place during each stage.
 
Most relationships move through cycles that include romance, disillusionment & mature love. In this framework, the stages emerge more quickly, with disillusionment often coming soon after the honeymoon. Mature love evolves - hopefully - after several years of marriage.